rules in relationship are uncountable in our world today but its up to us to take which one works for us .
at times rules may not work in ones relationship not because it is not effective but the person you using the rule on isn't in love with you .
on another hand when one {a lady} isn't independent the man wouldn't be move because he knows his your back bone ;
so developing ones self is every important in a relationship.
A lady should be able to love her self and choose her self first in every situation.
don't make your self too available all times as lady to your man . if you find your self always complaining because your man isn't at home or has come home late from work.
its best as lady not to complain. don't, because he won't change at all
keep your self busy by focusing more on yourself,
what makes you happy, go for vacation with or without your girls {friends} learn how to do your own make up and more these things keeps you busy.
because ones you are busy and starts loving your self you begin to care less about things that stress you out
don't be your mans mother , its a big fat NO, because all you would gain is stress and disappointment
you would begin to age rapidly. be his side chick, be adventurous, romantic and full of surprises all the time