Making rules isn't about listing a bunch of list full of your expectation .assuming you are in a relationship and your man does not give u flower and you are the type of lady that really fancy these things .
such man won't be moved my your constant nagging, some may and would start buying you flowers for a period of time and he would be back to the same old behavior. and you will also go back to sobbing and crying yourself to sleep .
to make rules effective , you don't have to be hard on yourself or blaming yourself because you could not handle a situation wisely without nagging and getting all emotional .
its okay to do so because as ladies, the creator of the universe had made women to be emotional but its left to us ladies to manage our emotion .even though that's our nature
as ladies we need to control our emotion and not be all emotional about a man,
love is beautiful and it feels nice to be loved and love. but in all these, love can also fade away in situation or scenario. use a step by step approach to set , make and follow rules .
this helps you to get comfortable and adhere to these rules and it make it a lot easy.