"Some people, like your colleague Zhang Hua, who happens to be quite good-looking, are even less willing to accept their lot in life, wishing they could take your place. Cousin, it's not that you're lacking or that you've done anything wrong; it's just that some people have a bad nature. No matter how kind you are to her, it's useless. She might even think you're being insincere."
"They don't think about the fact that you've achieved what you have today not only because of your family background but more importantly because of your own drive. If you hand over the finances of a large company to a worthless person, how can anything good come of it?"
"Moreover, sometimes it must be said that family background isn't something you can have just by wanting it. Envy is useless. Having a competent family is a blessing one cultivates, a gift from fate. There are millions of people born into this world; how can one compete with those who are blessed with good fortune?"