Nefretiri
The definition of torture is the action or practice of inflicting severe pain or suffering on someone as a punishment or to force them to say or do something.
At least, that's what the internet says.
If you changed the words pain and suffering to pleasure and ecstasy, you'd have what Ivan did to me for the past two hours. I don't know whether this was punishment for last night or not locking the door, but his goal was breaking me, and he succeeded.
Don't misunderstand. It's not like Ivan hurt me or abused my head or emotions. No, Ivan would never do that. Although the experience has left me somewhat traumatized, and again, I mean that in the best kind of way.
It's nuts, but the best way I can describe any of it. He started slow and ensured everything he did, only skimmed the edges of what I wanted. Using our bond to gauge how much I enjoyed something. Adjusting his actions to give me more or suddenly take it away before trying something new.